Mommy Monday

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Last Thursday, Huff the Tot was running a slight temperature and not really acting like herself. After some encouragement from my mom to take her to the doctor (okay, she basically told me to; but I’m glad I listened because…) we had her tested for the flu. Guess what?

Flu A. 

Yep.

My reaction:

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Thankfully, it hasn’t been *too* bad. She seems to only have the coughing/fever part of the flu which is great. But still, Huff the Hubs and I haven’t gotten a whole lot of sleep and I’m so scared that we’re going to get it. So I’m a wee stressed.

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I wish I was one of those people that did NOT eat when they were stressed. But I’m not. When I’m stressed, I like to eat everything in sight. And, to be honest, I was even doing this for a few days before she got sick. I kept seeing how many folks at the Mother’s Day Out program were getting the flu/had little ones with the flu and I was legit panicked. Like, “eating-all-the-kid’s-leftover-Christmas-candy” panicked.

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Soooooo…..yeah, my New Year’s Resolution to eat healthier and get back into shape has sort of fallen by the wayside. And, statistically speaking, I’m sure a lot of you have let your resolutions go too–whether it be to lose weight, get better sleep, or save money. Research shows that most resolutions lose their steam by February. But that doesn’t mean that all hope is lost! You can still get back on track–and so can I! I’ve rounded up some great tips to help you (and me!) reach those goals!

 

Don’t Be So Hard on Yourself

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I’m really bad about this. I beat myself up whenever I have the slightest hiccup in getting to my goals, whether it be through my own choices or circumstances. I fixate on the fact that I screwed up and start to get into a pit of melancholy. Sigh. Instead of saying, “Ugh! I can’t believe you did this! You’re never going to achieve {insert goal here} because you’re worthless!” tell yourself: “Hey, its okay. Let’s pick ourselves up and do better next time.” Or, you can just watch this scene from Batman Begins to help you.

 

If You’re Not Seeing Any Progress, Maybe Its Time to Reassess Your Goal

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Maybe your goal of saving $300 a month isn’t working because you don’t have a set budget. Or maybe your goal of working out five days a week isn’t feasible because of other things going on in your life right now. Some of you may say, “Well, if its REALLY important to you, you’ll MAKE time.” And while that is true, you’ve also go to look at facts. If you’re on a tight budget as it is, don’t make yourself sick by setting an enormous goal amount of money to save. Start small and slowly build over time, then find the amount that works for you without making you eat canned chili for dinner every night. The same goes for working out. Instead of saying you’re going to workout for an hour every single day, shoot for 20 minutes, 2-3 times a week and build on that over time.

 

Think About Why You Made These Goals in The First Place

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Why did you want to start waking up earlier? So you could get more done before the kids woke up? Why did you want to start eating healthier? So you could be around longer for your family? Why did you want to save money? So you could take that big trip you’ve always wanted? Think about the reasons behind your goals and let that motivate you!

 

Get Started

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Like Nike says, “Just do it!” No matter how hard it is, just put one foot in front of the other and move. Keep that $5 and put in a jar on your dresser. Take the stairs instead of the elevator. Eat an apple instead of that doughnut. Just make it happen! I know it can sometimes be hard to begin, which leads me to my next tip…

 

Get an Accountability Partner

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I know its a lot easier for me to make excuses to not do something when I’m the only person dependent on it. But, when I know someone else is expecting me to show up, its a lot harder for me to flake. So when I made a running goal, I enlisted my sister (and vice versa). It was a lot tougher for me to say, “I don’t want to run” to her than to myself. And, nine times out of ten, she would say, “Too bad. Get up. Let’s go.” (ha!)

 

There’s An App For That

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Want to drink more water? Try Plant Buddy! Need help stressing less? Maybe Pacifica could be helpful! Need guidance with workouts? 7 FIT gives short, concise workouts you can do anywhere! Want a better night’s rest? Sleep Cycle can help you count some zzz’s! There is pretty much an app for any goal you can think of–just peruse the app store and you’ll see!

 

Do you have any tips that have helped you get back on track? Share in the comments below!

 

Happy New Year!

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Happy New Year! I feel like we haven’t talked in so long! How’ve you been? How was your Christmas? Now that the hustle and bustle of the holidays are over, its time to start thinking about how you are going to make 2018 YOUR YEAR! Any plans? Don’t know where to start? Don’t worry, I’ve got chu.

I’ve posted about this before, but I’ll do a little recap on how I like to do my resolutions list.

Write out “2018” vertically on a sheet of paper. Then, for the number two, write the two best things that happened in 2017. For the zero, jot down a habit you’d like to break in the new year. The one is for your one wish for 2018 (i.e., health, stability, find love, etc.) and the eight is where you list eight goals you’d like to accomplish over the next twelve months. Need help coming up with ideas? Here’s my list to help you get started!

 

2—The Two Best Things That Happened This Year

 

Adding to My Friends List

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No, I don’t mean on Facebook. I’m talking about real life, yo. This year I’ve really got to know some awesome ladies and have become super close with. It’s just nice to have some gal pals you can commiserate with, laugh with, and swap stories with who totally “get you”.

 

Teaching KidFit

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Last year was my first year teaching at my church’s Mother’s Day Out program. I enjoyed working with the Littles I taught but this year, instead of working in a classroom with the same kids all day, my co-teacher and I decided to shake things up and teach “KidFit” (basically P.E.). It’s so much fun! We get to see all age groups of kids AND we get paid to PLAY. How awesome it that?!

 

 

0–Something You Want to Stop in the New Year

 

Getting Unnecessarily Stressed Out

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Ugh. I do this so much. Something trivial will happen, I’ll freak out, and then later I’ll think: “Wow that really wasn’t a big deal. And now that I’ve had time to think about it, I’m super embarrassed about how I handled it.” This happens to me frequently throughout the day. I want to be more relaxed—especially about stuff that doesn’t really matter—because I think that will add to my (and everyone around me) quality of life. *takes deep, cleansing breath*

 

1—My One Wish for 2018

 

Health

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Last year I saw so many people I know and care for come down with terrible sicknesses and diagnoses. My wish for the New Year is health—for me, my family, my friends, and acquaintances.

 

8—Eight Goals for the New Year

 

Get Down to Pre-Huff the Tot Weight

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This has pretty much been a goal since I gave birth to HtT…four years ago.

 

Find a Literary Agent

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Again, this has been a goal of mine for YEARS. Last year, I may have sat down to work on my book and find an agent ONCE. O-N-C-E. I really want to become a published author with a literary agent, so I’ve got to actually TRY.

 

Practice Banjo Everyday

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For our anniversary last year, Huff the Hubs got me a banjo! I’m super excited about learning and I’ve been doing lessons now for about three months. As you can imagine, it’s hard to accomplish anything when you’ve got two little ankle biters running amok, so my practice times have been few and far between (especially with the holidays). But, it’s the time for resolutions and I’m ready to stick to this one!

 

Be Consistent with Tot School

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I’m prayerfully considering homeschool my turkeys. For many reasons, of which I won’t bore you with now. I have basically two years to decide whether or not it will be the avenue our family will take, so I’m trying to get a glimpse of what it would be like by creating—and sticking to—lesson plans for Tot School. This is a BIG goal of mine for 2018!

 

Wake Before the Kids

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This is a constant goal. I want to wake before the kids so I can workout, shower, read a devotional, eat breakfast, and pretty much get my head in the game before, as Huff the Hubs calls it, “The Krakens awaken”, ha!

 

Read One Book a Month

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Last year I read two books. TWO. FREAKING. BOOKS. That’s it. My sister has read NINE in the past two weeks. Yeah. If I want to be a better writer, I’ve got to be a better reader. This means I need to read so I can learn from other writers I enjoy (and even some I dislike)!

 

Blog Consistently

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The holidays really threw off my groove. I felt like I was doing okay with blogging and then bam! Thanksgiving hit and it was all downhill. I want to blog more consistently; even if folks don’t read what I post, it’s a great outlet for me!

 

Save More Money

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When Christmas came around, I sadly saw my checking account was not as plentiful as I had hoped. Why? Because, Target Dollar Spot. And Chick-Fil-A. And Starbucks’ cake pops. And Chick-Fil-A. And Chick-Fil-A. (Seeing a pattern?) I’ve made up a personal savings plan for myself (I even made a spreadsheet in Excel, woot!) and I intend to make it rain…in the safety of my account.

 

What about you? What are your resolutions? Share in the comments below!

Try It Tuesday

Over the past few months, I’ve had a new obsession. This bad boy right here:

Fancy, schmancy.

Fancy, schmancy.

I love anything “no-touch”: no touch soap, no touch hand dryers, no touch paper towel dispensers…I love them all! I like not having to worry about excess germs. I’m no Sheldon; but I am a slight germaphobe.

 

So when I saw these (and all the kick-a coupons online) I snapped them up as quick as I could. They come in so handy in the kitchen when you’re cooking with chicken and don’t want to grab the bottle of Dawn or touch the soap pump. The likelihood of salmonella goes waaaay down.

 

As much as I love them, I also loathe them. Do you know how much those refills cost?! The cheapest I’ve seen them is $3.97. For ONE. (Tryin’ to break a white girl! ) When I noticed that the dispenser in our kitchen was no longer dispensing soap, I thought: There’s no way I’m spending $4 for this, and went to Google. 

 

I found a great tutorial here. I was surprised at how easy it was!

 

All you need is your empty Lysol Touch Free® refill, a butter knife, and some liquid hand soap. 

Prepare for war against $4 soap.

Prepare for war against $4 soap.

 

All you have to do is wedge your butter knife in between the bottle and the cap (in my picture, the yellow part). Just press the knife against the cap until the cap (literally) pops off. Be careful: I got hit in the head.

 

I flipped my lid. Ha!

I flipped my lid. Ha!

 

After that, just refill the container with any liquid soap you have laying around. I used Softsoap.

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Soft hands.

 

Then, just pop the cap back on; press it into your Lysol dispenser, and voila! You have officially saved your household about $48 a year!